Compensate for Small Dick?

How can some women be so cruel and humiliate guys with small penis? I see it all the time searching Google like "small penis humiliation" and stuff...there's even videos .My dick, according to statistics, is below avg at 4.5" erect. I know I know the whole size doesnt matter/motion in ocean/ what you do with it speeches, but mines rather thin as well. What can I do to compensate for this in relationships? Become the Bruce Lee of pussy-eating? Lawl. But do you prefer oral sex to vaginal penetration? Give me some hope :)